Wave Your Lesbian Flag Proud
Loud, proud, and authentically you. That’s how it should be and that’s how it is on POF. We want you to show up and feel free to be who you truly are. However you identify or don’t identify, you’re always welcome on POF.
Don’t know where to start? Looking for queer dating advice? We can help you find the right people and the best matches. We can also give you ideas for where you can go and what you can do on your dates. You can check out our blog, The Latest Catch, to stay updated on all of our LGBT dating advice. Wait, did we just become the best matchmaker?
With one of the largest dating apps and sites, plus thousands of active singles, you’re bound to meet other single lesbians just like you. And with plenty (get it?) of ways to communicate, you truly can date your way. Choose from text, video chat, voice chat, watching live streams, playing games, and more. Your perfect lesbian date is just a swipe or search away.
Remember when we said we’d give you some date ideas? Well, we’re delivering on that promise. C’mon, we wouldn’t leave you hanging.
- Cook for your date
- Go stargazing
- Book a spa day
- Get a couple’s massage
- Go out for a dine-in the-dark experience
- Go to the drive-in movie theater
- Take a night cruise
- Plan a picnic
- Try a new restaurant
- Make cocktails for each other
- Take a day trip
- Drink wine and listen to music
- Have a games night
- Have a movie day with snacks
- Go out to the theater
- Go on a hike
- Try something new
- Go skydiving
- Take a camping trip
- Go to your local food market
- Visit the museum
- Have a touristy day in your own city
- Do a cooking class
- Go to a cocktail class
- Check out the arcade
- Go out for brunch
We hope that gets you started on your dating journey and gives you fresh ideas for fun ways to keep things interesting. Doing things that matter with people that matter to you is what life is all about! And if they don’t feel that way about you, 1. We’re confused because you’re amazing and 2. It’s time to move along to the next. You can think of us as your wing person, cheerleader, and support group all in one. No worries, no need to thank us.
If you don’t know, now you know… there are some really bogus misconceptions about lesbians. You may have even heard them yourself and they may have caused some lesbian dating issues for you in the past. For example:
All lesbians know each other
Lesbians hate men
Lesbians always stay friends with their exes
Lesbians are either butch or femme
Lesbians dress like men
Sorry, what? How bizarre is that? Those that want to put you in a box aren’t worth your time, so just do you and live your life. There, we said it. We’re moving on.
Sigh, anyways… that’s enough of that silliness. In a world that can sometimes feel unaccepting, we want to welcome you to POF with open arms. In the end, we all want to find love, be loved, and be happy. Whether you’re dating after coming out or have proudly been out for a while, we want to help you find who you’re looking for!
Our matching algorithm will have you meeting the most compatible lesbians in no time! The algorithm uses the unique attributes from your dating profile and connects you with the best single lesbians. Trust us, it’s incredibly accurate—you’ll be very impressed. So, feeling ready to get started?
Play Cue'd Up
The “Are you sure?” feature will help you avoid those cringey, awkward conversations.
We're making getting to know singles online fun again with our new sassy fill-in-the-blanks game. Remove the pressure and get to know other singles in a relaxed setting before you swipe. Here's how it works:
- We'll scan your messages for anything potentially offensive – think sexts, suggestive emojis, etc.
- Check out the responses and show some love to the one that made you snort laugh. Answers that get “likes” get points
- Swipe right on the player who caught your eye and start a conversation
Here's how it works:
Plenty of Fish has one mission: to connect the most singles by building low-pressure online experiences where the right people take notice. That's why we built our state-of-the-art dating technology; Chemistry Predictor & Personality Test, which is automatically built into the website.
Ready? It's easy peasy
& Find Dates!
- a. Take the Pledge to be safe & respectful
- b. Head over to Live! to start finding dates
- a. Navigate to the Live! tab on the bottom right
- b. Hit “Go Live!” and then tap the heart icon at the bottom left of your screen to start NextDate
- c. Tap the heart icon again to switch into Blind Date Mode and wait for someone to join your date!
Making the first move is proven to increase your chances of finding a date. Our advice is to keep it light and start with a mutual interest, such as...you know it, HOW YOU”RE BOTH SINGLE AND A LESBIAN!